OK, here's the down low...

At the start of next month, I am getting some great guys together, who have struggled one way or another with anger for a long time to show them exactly how to keep a cool head and hold their composure.

I am going to help them select beliefs that will help them, how to check their expectations, and how to program their minds to pause for 5 seconds when they need to, before speaking.  

I have called the program the COMPOSURE PROGRAM because that's our only focus here. 

Far from it...

Most people who tend to get angry also usually have some unhelpful thinking patterns going on in their heads. 

Overthinking is one of these and so is negative self-talk. Overthinking results in little issues becoming huge problems and negative self-talk results in limiting beliefs that they have about themselves. I address both of these unhelpful thinking patterns and also teach you the key skill of reframing. That is, the ability to look at something that you may have imagined or classified as a bad thing and teach you how to look at things from another perspective in order that you can see the good in anything. Reframing is very powerful because once you have this skill developed, you remove bad things from your life, resulting in a happier you. This also minimises the chances of getting angry also. 

In the COMPOSURE PROGRAM, I also teach you about the key element of good communication and that is the whole concept of rapport. I teach you what it is, how to get it, how to know if you have lost and how to get it back if you drop out of rapport with a person you are communicating with. I also you to flex your communication style and help you to become more aware of your tonality. 

I also teach a number of other concepts and provide you with some recorded hypnosis sessions that you can use whenever you want to help you to chill out, calm down and to relax. 

1.   We'll start with checking your expectations and help you to realise anything that upsets you can only upset you depending on the expectations you place on yourself. Most upsets can be avoided if we were just real with ourselves to know we may have been expecting too much.

2.  Next, we will help you to look at some of the beliefs you hold about anger that are facilitating anger to occur. Once we have identified these, we tweak those beliefs linguistically to change them from limiting beliefs to enabling beliefs. We also spend a little bit of time looking at where you may have picked up your beliefs about anger earlier in your life.  

3.   Next, I will explain how the 5 second method works and get you started on this 10-day exercise that will fundamentally change you from being a reactor to being a responder. 

At the completion of this section, Phase 1, you will already be feeling significantly calmer and more composed. You may even be feeling confident about your ability to maintain composure at this stage.

4.   In phase 2 of the COMPOSURE PROGRAM, we start to address what I call, stinking thinking. These are unhelpful thought processes such as overthinking and negative self-talk, neither of which help you in your quest to be a man oif composure.

5.    I also teach you about the Mind-Body loop, which is about getting a better understanding of your nervous system. Because it is your nervous system that is responsible for how you think and how you feel. To maintain composure, it is essential you gain skills in learning how to control your nervous system.

6.   One of the best ways to control your nervous system is through the skills of reframing. That is, the ability to reframe meaning because things are only good or bad depending on the meaning you give things. It is therefore critical that we exercise some choice when deciding if something is good or bad. 

At the completion of Phase 2, not only are you feeling composure, you are also feeling more grounded, stable and generally happier about things going on in your life. 

7.   Phase 3 is all about communication skills. I will teach you the most important component for any communication and that is the whole concept of rapport. I teach you all about it, how to recognise it, how to maintain it and how to get it back if you lose it. 

8.   I will also teach you about tonality and how important this vital part of communication is. 

9.   To complete the COMPOSURE PROGRAM, I will teach you how to make the distinction between what you notice and the meaning you give to what you notice, which is often confusing for most people, that leads to making false assumptions that we act on without really knowing the situation. 

I only want to work with people who can implement, test, and report back on your results and how you are feeling.

I am taking people today and I am inviting YOU to join the crew.

This is not a course where you need to find lots of time to make notes and watch endless generic videos. I'll give you bite-sized chunks and you can knock them off in a few minutes each day. 

During our time together, we hang together in a private group to talk about it and brainstorm specific strategies for YOUR SITUATION so you can put them into action and report back on your results. I really want to create some great case studies from this program, so I will be spending time with you to make sure you gain maximum value and maximum change from what you are learning. 

In deciding on the value of the program, it is important to think about what it may cost you, if you don't get your anger under full control. Anger splits families apart, ends marriages, divides your assets if it's left unchecked. 

If you join us, your investment in the COMPOSURE PROGRAM can be done either as an upfront payment where you will save $100 off the price to pay with either of the installments options. 

The first installment option of $200 down now and then 2 further payments of $200. These can be spread apart by up to a month between installments.

The second Installment option means you can get started immediately with just  A$100 down now and then 5 payments of A$100 every week. 

So $600 if using installments or $500 if paying up front.

Each option is covered by the 30 day no questions asked money back refund period. 

Any time you invest time and money on working with a coach, there’s a risk. Right? What if it doesn’t work? What if it’s not as good as he said? What if Charlie's an exaggerating liar?

So let’s look at the best and worst case scenarios:

Best Case: over the next 2 months, you learn how to maintain your composure. The things that used to annoy you and piss you off don't have the same impact they used to. All the time you used to spend overthinking goes back into your available time to do productive things. You are now telling yourself things that provide you with self-belief and-with that self-belief, you notice a big improvement in your self-worth. You are using the skills you have learnt about rapport and all the people with whom you have relationships are noticing a less stressed, happier you. When a potential upset happens, you automatically feel cool, calm and collected and you remind yourself how you are not surprised. Your reframe skills are so sharp that you asutomatically see the potential upset was actuallyt a good thing. You take the blessings and lessons from each experience and you start living and feeling more fulfilled and happy than you ever hsve. 

That’s the best case. 

But what about the worst case?

Worst Case: maybe it doesn’t work. Maybe you’re a few weeks in, and you decide it’s not for you. Or the content isn't quite right, or maybe you jumped too soon, or you decide that my Australian accent gets annoying...

In which case, anytime in the first 30 days just let me know, and I’ll refund you 100% of what you’ve paid. No questions asked.

You get to keep all the materials we've covered. You'll be smarter, and still have the skillsets... But you won't have to pay for it at all.

So that way there's no risk to give it a go and get started, is there?

So YES, there is a 30 Day, no questions asked 100% money back guarantee.